Dear exhausted worship leader,
Who is struggling to keep your head above water…
Who is rarely appreciated for what you do…
Breathe.
Believe you stand as a child of the King.
You are accepted, loved, forgiven, and perfect.
If you failed every day for the rest of your life, you would be a success because God has chosen you.
Your weakness is a testimony to God’s strength. He is molding you to reflect His greatness on a greater scale.
Isn’t that what you want people to see?
That your God is worthy.
That your God is awesome.
That God is your highest aim, your greatest treasure.
It’s in stepping away from the crowds that you find who you are.
Then, you can return with something to say, something to give, a glory to represent.
May the Word dwell richly within you so Christ shines ever brighter through you.
May today be a day of rest, refueling, and a repositioning of your heart.
Don’t give up. You are helping us see Jesus.
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Thanks for this, David. I have just started a three month Sabbatical from my ministry work, and it is much needed. I am blessed to have this opportunity. Our church has been through a long valley over the last 12 years, and God has been faithfully with us. But there are scars and wounds that need healing. This speaks right to our hearts as worship leaders. Thank you.
Neil, I pray you have a restful, God-centered sabbatical. What an opportunity!
Hey Neil, can you tell me what you plan to do for a sabbatical as a worship leader? My church has just approved my taking one as well within this coming year after 15 years of being in the position of Worship Pastor. I’m just trying to think of what would be the most beneficial way to spend it, and what all the options are! Are you resting, or writing or traveling or …? If you don’t mind sharing. Of if anyone else has any experiences they would enjoy sharing. I would love to hear them!
Hi, Marsha!
Congrats on your Sabbatical. And congrats for working with a leadership team that gets it and understands the need for something like this. I work 1/4 time at our church, and supplement my income giving private lessons and freelancing as a performer and composer. I purposely scheduled my Sabbatical for the summer months when my teaching load would be low and I could schedule more days in the week to rest.
My Sabbatical went very well, and was a deep blessing to me and my family. The main thing I learned to do was to simply STOP. I rested. I slept late for a while. I began to learn what it meant to be still again, to be in the moment. It was tempting to offer to help on things while I was away, but I was advised against it, thankfully. In the words of my wise bride, “The Sabbath is largely a discipline to get us to trust God for what we’re not getting done.”
As time went by, a spent more time in intentional Bible reading. Not study per se, but just soaking it in. I did some journalling, and I would like to develop that discipline more. Re-learning to pray was a big part of the process. I would speak out loud to Jesus as if He were sitting with me in a nearby chair, or walking with me on hikes. My intimacy with Him grew greatly.
I also read two very helpful books: Brennan Manning’s “Abba’s Child”, and Peter Scazzero’s “Emotionally Healthy Spirituality”. This second book was a huge blessing, and my wife is now reading it and we are trying to apply some of what he discusses in our lives and marriage.
I did some traveling with my family. A co-pastor lent us their time-share for a few days. I got away with my wife for a weekend. I went camping with some guys from the church.
We also attended another church from another denomination. (I serve in a non-denominational fellowship, and we attended a Lutheran fellowship for the summer.) This was a huge benefit, as I was not tempted to try and compare worship styles and skills, and I ran into almost nobody we knew, thus avoiding the temptation to explain the Sabbatical or step into any ministry roles. I met with the pastor at the temporary church and explained what was happening and they welcomed us with open arms for the season. Our children stayed at our regular church and attended with friends, thus keeping them from resenting the time away.
I was also accountable to a mentor who has helped others with their Sabbaticals. He oversees several Navigators ministry workers throughout the Northwest. We modified the Navigators’ Sabbatical guidelines for my own work. We met every two weeks to discuss my “issues” and check on my heart as we proceeded through the weeks away. It was so good to have someone safe to talk to about my ministry, my family, and my own needs. I’d be happy to send you the PDF we started with and you could see if it would be helpful at all in your situation and ministry. I’d just need an e-mail to send it to. You can contact me at neilpatton@emeraldbible.com .
Rest. Learn to say “No” to things that are not necessary. Relearn how to say “Yes” to your kids and your spouse, instead of pushing them off to do more work. God will bless your time of being with Him.
Many blessings to you!
Neil
Neil Patton
http://www.neilpatton.net
http://www.pattonmusic.com
great post. I talk with worship leaders every day who are dealing with burnout and who just feel exhausted. It’s great encouragement to read something like this because it is so easy to get caught up in the day to day things that need to be done as a worship leader. Thanks for the post.
Thanks Robert! Glad to have you on here.
I’m at a place where I need to take a break. I actually just shared with my congregation that I’m going to step down for a season. I’m excited, scared and not sure where to go from here. My pastor and friends support me, but being in ministry for 15 years makes it a challenge to do anything else. It’ll be interesting to see what God has in store for the Ross clan!
Are you taking a sabbatical or stepping down for an unknown period of time?
My greatest point of exhaustion right now is that I am at a church where I really don’t fit the culture. They are great people and love God, but they really enjoy and believe in their laid back, go with the flow feel and like things a bit more structured. However, I firmly believe God has called me to this place. I feel like I am constantly working in my weaknesses, not my strengths, and that has me exhausted. I am trying to learn to rely on God, not my strengths, to do his work. Very hard for me.
Anon, it’s probably not good if you’re constantly working in your weaknesses. What about your role energizes you?
A friend of mine left a print out from your website on my desk chair this morning. I was intrigued and the topic was just so perfect. I have been ‘leading’ the praise service for 9 years at my church; that is nearly 500 Sundays and I am indeed blessed to have God ask me to do this; it is and will always be my proudest achievement and honor. But, I do relate to swimming against burnout and trying to stay fresh. I think the part I struggle with is the worship leader part, but I suppose that is a journey. You would think that after these many years I would feel qualified. I feel competent, but not necessarily qualified. It is hard to have something new to say every Sunday. I don’t do the sermon (the pastor does that), just greet everyone, call them to worship with us, and manage the flow/transitions of the music. Anyway – thanks for the blog, it will be very helpful and I am glad I found it.
Hey Danny, thanks for touching base. I wouldn’t pressure myself to have something new to say every sunday. Enjoy being with your congregation and worship authentically. “new things” will flow naturally out of that.